Anonymous
My husband has announced after 35 yrs of marriage that he no longer has romantic love for me. He says he has been lonely & hurt for many years due to my lack of showing initiative with intimacy and a myriad of other irritants that he shared. I had no idea. I could not fix what I did not know was broken. I immediately started Christian counseling–and have learned much and feel I am a different person. He seems to have zero desire to work on things–please pray that he would hear what God is speaking to him and not rebel or resist God’s voice. Please pray that I would have wisdom and discernment in what to do and say or not do or say. My heart is crushed and I am so sad. I thought we had a great marriage—those around us did to—but I guess I was blind to all. Please pray that my husband would love me again and that we could build a healthy and strong marriage with intimacy in all areas. May it begin to happen soon as the longer he plays in this place of being “stuck” and rehearsing all of the negative I do not think it is healthy.