answered!
Denise
I feel stuck. My husband & I have been married for 20 plus years. Since the beginning, he has spent a fair amount of time searching pornography and satisfying himself. For the past 10ish years, it’s not so much pornography but rather slightly dressed women. I have written letters to him and pleaded while crying to his face about how damaging his actions are to our relationship. I confront him at least 3-4 times a year with this. He cries, says he going to change his ways, but has continued to fall short. We are believers, attend church regularly, & are surrounded by great believers. I don’t feel I can share this with anyone, but I know we need outside help. I listen to The Wally Show podcast from time to time and thought I would try to get help through an outlet where we can be anonymous. I am to the point where I want to give up & no longer feel I can fully trust him again. I need so much help right now & I know he does too. Please pray for us & our marital relationship. Thank you!
Received: Apr 27, 2022
God answered this prayer request. This is how:
Thank you to all who have read my message and for those that took extra time to say a prayer for me and my husband. BIG things have happened since I submitted my situation. My husband has had several "Come to Jesus" moments, we have talked on several occassions without distractions of TV or cellphones. He even confessed his behaviors to his father. This was HUGE and his own idea. Once this took place, he felt relief and release of his shame and guilt. I feel this is what was missing from all of the past situations. He even is willing to seek marriage counseling WITH me. We are broken in our marriage, but we are broken TOGETHER! Fixing our broken marriage will be OUR journey TOGETHER. I truly believe that with prayer warriors' support (yea, that's you guys!), we will GROW in our relationship and exceed each other's expecations because GOD'S hands are at work in both of our lives. Saying "Thank you" seems to be a small gesture for what has been done for me and my husband, but please know it is being said with humility and profound appreciation for the prayers that have been uttered.